Entrepreneurs often credit their upbringing for their success or
drive to own their own business. Sometimes, it’s that their parents had
amazing work ethics; others, that they were simply encouraged from a
young age to pursue their dreams.
For me, entrepreneurship was largely taught. I grew up in a home with
two parents who owned their own business, and it’s not a big surprise
to anyone that I wound up starting my own successful wedding brand, Rustic Wedding Chic and The Rustic Wedding Guide.
Now that I’m a mom myself, I look back on my upbringing and give it
the same credit that many other entrepreneurs do -- and I hope to pass
the same qualities along to my son. From an early age, I was given the
tools to build my own business. These are gifts you can pass on to your
child whether you’re an entrepreneur or not.
1. Model business behavior. Just like we try to
censor our language or model kindness to our kids, it’s important to
show our kids how to behave in business by inviting them into our lives.
I love making my 3-year-old son a part of my business. When bookkeeping
time comes each month, he’s great at stacking up receipts, grabbing
bank statements from the printer or just sitting with me. I get the
chance to show him what I’m doing and talk to him about the numbers as I
work.
2. Encourage creativity. In my first business,
“Maggie’s Shell Shop,” I hand picked shells from the beach and sold
passersby my collections. I was 5. Thanks to a generous set of
relatives, I was hooked on becoming an entrepreneur and experienced
success early on. Whether it’s play or a real small business, give your
child the chance to experience success and see how rewarding it is to
operate a company they’ve created. Start by giving kids play money and
set up a store in your living room -- it’s a great way for them to play
and learn at the same time.
3. Foster curiosity. Every great entrepreneur knows
that usually the first step in creating a business is to be curious
about something: How is it made? Why does it need to be on the market?
Who could it help? How can I make it better? The questions start from
kids at an early age, and it’s important to help them explore and feel
free to be curious. Eventually, they’ll start making something of their
own. I love to watch my 3 year old take apart a toy or create new rules
for a board game that he thinks work better. All of this "investigative
work," as he calls it, is helping to expand this thinking and
curiosity.
4. Embrace failure. Grown-up entrepreneurs know that
failure is part of the game -- it’s why the rewards are so sweet. But
even small failures can be devastating for a child. Help your child to
understand that failure is not a bad thing and explain that often, our
greatest lessons as business owners come out the failures. Help your
child see that there is always a version 2.0 -- which, as we know, is
always better than the first one!
5. Make it fun. Everyday activities can become a
little lesson in how to become an entrepreneur, even when they’re not
business related. My niece and nephew are big into helping with dinner
thanks to shows such as "Chopped" and "Cupcake Wars.” These 8- and
6-year-olds now pretend they are on one of these shows as they help with
dinner prep. Instead of asking for help setting the table, tell the
kids they’re the chefs for the night. Develop a menu, tell them to
create a “vibe” and turn the kitchen into a restaurant. Allowing them to
create something and see it through will not only help make mundane
tasks more fun, it will give them a huge sense of accomplishment.
Raising kids with an entrepreneurial spirit doesn’t necessarily take a
lot of time or money -- it just takes a different perspective on your
everyday life and the willingness to let your kids into what you do and
why you love it.
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